Words

If you can heap it in a mound and it stays that way, it's a relish, not a salsa.

Also, the only things that do impact (verb) other things are unique objects with physical mass: fists, bullets, meteorites. Likewise, they are the only things that have an impact (noun). For everything else, the words are "affect" and "effect."

(Let me also remind everyone that gender is not the same thing as sex.)